Welcome to Holy Week. Not the Holy Week any of us planned, but the Holy week Jesus gave us.
Prayers. Thanks to so many of you who have reached out to us with your prayer intentions…. Facebook masses being live-streamed have been a beautiful way to stay in touch with you and to lift your prayers up to Jesus. We are a big parish, but it is inspiring to see you embracing one another’s prayer intentions especially because it is virtual / online!
Church closed to visits:
Palm Sunday – Church closed all day so that we can do the expanded live-streaming from the church. We want to maximize your ability to stay connected to your parish, and believe that on Palm Sunday it will be important that Masses are live-streamed from the church.
Triduum (Thursday 6pm through Easter Sunday) – again the church will be closed for the entirety of the Triduum. This is so that we can livestream the Holy Week liturgies on facebook. Also, because the number of visitors would likely be too many, it seems likely that we would have difficulty keeping the VA mandated maximum of ten persons.
But what about Palms? If I can’t give you the living body of Christ, the King of Kings, then I don’t want to give you dead branches. I don’t want to violate social distancing to give you a lesser good (Palms) when I can’t give you the supreme good (Jesus Himself).
However: here are some ways you can ‘decorate’ your home stream chapel to participate in Holy week:
Palm Sunday: clip a branch for a tree or bush. A flowering one would be appropriate to celebrate Jesus Trimphal entry into Jerusalem!
Holy Thursday: find a picture of the paschal lamb. Below is one of my favorites from the Ghent Altarpiece!
Good Friday: set up crucifix prominently, so that you can venerate the cross with us when we livestream the 3pm Liturgy!
Holy Saturday: get a candle ready for the Easter Vigil, preferably you or your children’s baptismal candles!
Easter Sunday: Have a small bottle or bowl of water ready, to remember the grace of our baptism!
Additionally, if you want to see the Magnifikid, they have made the April issue(s) available online. They ask that you download the month at:
Be assured of the prayers and concern of your priests! We miss you and are hoping that we can once again soon gather around the altar of the lamb who was slain for our sins!
We are now into our second weekend without public Masses and communion. It seems like two years.
Today, I’d just like to give an update, and ask you to consider how you might continue to support the parish financial. I have avoided this until now, because there are much more pressing matters at hand, and I am aware that everyone if financially impacted right now. In the 2 weekends prior to this one (one with limited attendance, one with no public Masses), the parish Sunday collection is down about $40,000.
More specifically, the past week we received $5,800 in envelopes mailed in, compared to an average of about $35,000 per week in the collection baskets. Thank you to all who have gone out of their way to mail or drop off envelopes.
The Governor’s mandate of 10 people maximum is already extended to April 23rd. Therefore we will be unable to gather and pray Mass today, Palm Sunday, Easter, and Divine Mercy Sunday. That will also likely mean a lost offertory of $120,00 or more since Easter is always the largest collection of the year.
Thus far, we are trying to keep staff employed, and have moved to the maximum amount of tele-work possible. Our number one expense is salary for people who generously serve you, and like you they need their jobs!
St Mary’s is maintaining our charitable works. We have definitely seen an uptick in the number of folks coming by and asking for food, and we continue to support feeding/outreach programs through the region.
How can you help?
Faith Direct is the company that manages online direct giving. Prayerfully consider if you might switch your offertory to this mode of giving. The steady nature of these disbursements is a great assistance to our budget and cash flow. This method also allows for the best social distancing! (CLICK HERE TO ENROLL IN FAITH DIRECT!)
If you still prefer the envelope system, perhaps you might mail in the envelopes.
The office is currently on reduced hours for drop-off only: 8:30am-4:30pm on weekdays. This is to allow our staff to answer questions, and provide assistance with good social distancing principles!
Yes, there is a drop-box outside the office, so technically you could drop envelopes at any time, but we prefer not to have donations in the drop-box for obvious security reasons.
Additionally, much is still happening here at the parish: live-streaming multiple prayers daily, priests and teachers reaching out via distance learning for Holy Cross Academy, preparing talks for online, and holding some meetings via Zoom, and hearing Confessions with social distancing.
Many parishioners have written me with how reassuring it is to be able to see the faces of our priests and pray together.
Holy Week is coming! The church is open for Adoration during the day, and all confessions scheduled for this week and next are ON in the PLC! Social distancing is the norm for both confessions and Adoration, but please stop by to get ready for Easter!
Palm Sunday, in addition to Masses, we will stream Evening Prayer and a concert by our music director that will begin at 5pm.
Links to faith direct and all of our live-streaming can be found on the parish website and by CLICKING HERE.
Live Streaming of Daily Mass and devotionals is happening on Facebook! Please click the following link to go tohttps://whttps://www.facebook.com/pg/stmaryfred/videos/?ref=page_internalww.facebook.com/stmaryfred/ to watch our current or past live streams of Mass, the rosary, the Divine Mercy chaplet, and Stations of the Cross! You are not required to create a Facebook Account to watch, just follow the link! The schedule is as follows:
Daily Mass: 9am Every Day
Sunday Mass: 9am in English, 12pm in Spanish
Divine Mercy Chaplet: 3pm Every Day
Rosary: 6:30pm Every Day
Stations of the Cross: 7pm on Fridays of Lent
Via Crucis (Stations of the Cross in Spanish): 7:30pm on Fridays of Lent
The events remain up after the Live Stream, so you can watch them and pray along at whatever time is convenient.