From Our Pastor ~ April 10, 2016

From Our Pastor ~ April 10, 2016

Dear Good People of Saint Mary,

Time for our parish to turn our thoughts to what we can do with our wonderful school, Holy Cross Academy. Our staff and faculty recently finished the year-long “Design for Excellence,” a re-accreditation program that the diocese requires every five years, and received evaluations at the top in every category. We thank our Sisters, teachers and aides in the school for such a quantity of work that often goes unnoticed, and unrecognized.

As you know, in two short weeks we will have our every-other-year Holy Cross Auction—you’ve probably seen the promotions for it as we’ve been running it in the bulletin for several months. This auction provides extraordinary possibilities for capital improvements and investment in equipment that our annual budgets could not begin to include. As it is, our parish subsidy covers about $350-400 tuition per student, and tuition only covers the expenses of children’s education. So anything above and beyond is something with which the community must provide assistance.

The history of our church and school is interesting. When I first came to Saint Mary, after Holy Cross was already four years in existence, parishioners had been told that Holy Cross was not our parish school—and many at Saint Mary were not even aware that it was there. When it was built, it was designated as a regional school because the plan was to build a new parish in south Stafford County called Holy Cross Parish. When I arrived, however, residential zoning and permits had just changed drastically in Stafford County, requiring either large acre lots per house or over-55 years of age, that the growth slowed to a crawl, where it had been a boom previously. The new construction all went south to Spotsylvania and Massaponax as a result, so we decided to start the new parish there, called Saint Jude.

But people remained largely unaware that Holy Cross was our responsibility. Although still designated a “regional” school, Saint Mary has always been the only parish who has supported it. The designation was finally changed last year by Bishop Loverde, and Holy Cross Academy is now the parish school of Saint Mary of the Immaculate Conception parish. It has been a priority for Sister and me, all along but especially now, to make sure that the relationship between school and parish is strong—it is stronger than most parishes where the school sits across the parking lot from the church.

So it is with great excitement that we would like to announce to you that Saint Mary is beginning the work of completing the school, by adding facilities that we always knew would be necessary in the future when we could make it happen. The school was built very quickly within one year of the announcement that the Daughters of Wisdom were going to close Montfort Academy— and as a result immediate needs became apparent. For example, there is no cafeteria— so the physical education program and school sports compete with the gym for lunch hours and the after-school program. There are regular sized classrooms for art and music which simply aren’t large enough. And our computer lab fits 30 children and 30 computers and monitors, screen-to-screen into a space that is 20 x 30. By adding a cafeteria, and larger spaces for music, art, science and technology, we will be able to enlarge our small library and provide dedicated spaces for a primary grades resource center, middle-school special mathematics and world language rooms, and finally have a chapel on the premises where groups can go and pray, or celebrate Mass as a class.

I will include the floor plan of what we hope to accomplish in the bulletin next week.

But the fundraising is beginning. Some parishioners have invited a group of other parishioners to attend a special dinner for donors to kick off the effort, but response has been very small. These things usually are, and if we have learned anything at Saint Mary over the years, it is that we don’t survive on major gifts—never have—but  on the modest generosity of so many whose gifts add up to enough.

There are two ways you can get involved right away: April 23 is our biannual Holy Cross Auction. Come, bid on items in the auction and join the effort. And on May 3, donate to Holy Cross Academy as a part of the Community Foundation’s Community Give. On May 3, the more people we have participating, the more cash awards and other incentives are available. We will have more about the Community Give in the bulletin next week. You can also find out more about local giving for the Community Give at www.thecommunitygive.org.

God bless all of you,

Fr. Don

Express Announcements ~ April 10, 2016

Express Announcements ~ April 10, 2016

* The second collection this weekend is for our Parish Building Fund.

* You are invited to a prayer gathering in the ecumenical tradition of the Taizé community in France this Monday evening, April 11, at 8:15 in the Church. All are welcome.

* The Shroud of Turin replica is coming to Saint Mary on Saturday, April 16. Join us at 1pm for a talk an the opportunity to see a full size replica of the Shroud.

*  Preparations are underway for Holy Cross Academy’s 8th Biennial Benefit Auction and Dinner to be held on April 23, 2016! The goal of this year’s event is to begin the expansion plans of the school, to include a cafeteria, chapel, and rooms dedicated to music, art, science, language and technology. For ticket information please contact hcaauction@ holycrossweb.com.

* Saint Mary Parish Night Out 2016: Join us for an evening of dinner and dancing to the Andrew Thielen Big Band, Friday, April 29 at the UMW Jepson Center, Cash Bar 6-11pm, 7pm Dinner & Dancing. $75 person. Last year tickets sold out! Reserve yours now— see page 8 for details—its time to step it up, Fred!

* We are putting the finishing touches on our 2015-2016 Parish Directory and would like to hear from you! If you wish to OPT OUT from having your information listed the Directory, please contact the parish office no later than April 22. We only need to hear from you if you DO NOT want your information published. If you  participated in the program, Lifetouch has your information and intention on file.

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Meditation on April 3, 2016 readings

Meditation on April 3, 2016 readings

Direct Link to Audio File: Meditation on April 3, 2016 readings

Second Sunday of Easter (or Sunday of Divine Mercy)

Reading 1 Acts 5:12-16

Many signs and wonders were done among the people
at the hands of the apostles.
They were all together in Solomon’s portico.
None of the others dared to join them, but the people esteemed them.
Yet more than ever, believers in the Lord,
great numbers of men and women, were added to them.
Thus they even carried the sick out into the streets
and laid them on cots and mats
so that when Peter came by,
at least his shadow might fall on one or another of them.
A large number of people from the towns
in the vicinity of Jerusalem also gathered,
bringing the sick and those disturbed by unclean spirits,
and they were all cured.

Responsorial Psalm Ps 118:2-4, 13-15, 22-24

R. (1) Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love is everlasting.
or:
R. Alleluia.
Let the house of Israel say,
“His mercy endures forever.”
Let the house of Aaron say,
“His mercy endures forever.”
Let those who fear the LORD say,
“His mercy endures forever.”
R. Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love is everlasting.
or:
R. Alleluia.
I was hard pressed and was falling,
but the LORD helped me.
My strength and my courage is the LORD,
and he has been my savior.
The joyful shout of victory
in the tents of the just:
R. Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love is everlasting.
or:
R. Alleluia.
The stone which the builders rejected
has become the cornerstone.
By the LORD has this been done;
it is wonderful in our eyes.
This is the day the LORD has made;
let us be glad and rejoice in it.
R. Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love is everlasting.
or:
R. Alleluia.

Reading 2 Rev 1:9-11a, 12-13, 17-19

I, John, your brother, who share with you
the distress, the kingdom, and the endurance we have in Jesus,
found myself on the island called Patmos
because I proclaimed God’s word and gave testimony to Jesus.
I was caught up in spirit on the Lord’s day
and heard behind me a voice as loud as a trumpet, which said,
“Write on a scroll what you see.”
Then I turned to see whose voice it was that spoke to me,
and when I turned, I saw seven gold lampstands
and in the midst of the lampstands one like a son of man,
wearing an ankle-length robe, with a gold sash around his chest.

When I caught sight of him, I fell down at his feet as though dead.
He touched me with his right hand and said, “Do not be afraid.
I am the first and the last, the one who lives.
Once I was dead, but now I am alive forever and ever.
I hold the keys to death and the netherworld.
Write down, therefore, what you have seen,
and what is happening, and what will happen afterwards.”

Alleluia Jn 20:29

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
You believe in me, Thomas, because you have seen me, says the Lord;
blessed are they who have not seen me, but still believe!
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel Jn 20:19-31

On the evening of that first day of the week,
when the doors were locked, where the disciples were,
for fear of the Jews,
Jesus came and stood in their midst
and said to them, “Peace be with you.”
When he had said this, he showed them his hands and his side.
The disciples rejoiced when they saw the Lord.
Jesus said to them again, “Peace be with you.
As the Father has sent me, so I send you.”
And when he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them,
“Receive the Holy Spirit.
Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them,
and whose sins you retain are retained.”Thomas, called Didymus, one of the Twelve,
was not with them when Jesus came.
So the other disciples said to him, “We have seen the Lord.”
But he said to them,
“Unless I see the mark of the nails in his hands
and put my finger into the nailmarks
and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”

Now a week later his disciples were again inside
and Thomas was with them.
Jesus came, although the doors were locked,
and stood in their midst and said, “Peace be with you.”
Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here and see my hands,
and bring your hand and put it into my side,
and do not be unbelieving, but believe.”
Thomas answered and said to him, “My Lord and my God!”
Jesus said to him, “Have you come to believe because you have seen me?
Blessed are those who have not seen and have believed.”

Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of his disciples
that are not written in this book.
But these are written that you may come to believe
that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God,
and that through this belief you may have life in his name.

From Our Pastor ~ April 3, 2016

From Our Pastor ~ April 3, 2016

Dear Good People of Saint Mary,

Happy Easter! I hope the joy of Jesus’ resurrection can carry forward in your life into the coming weeks, especially this Season of Easter, but beyond as well! What  Easter is to the year, Sunday is to the week—what the Church has always called “Little Easter” each week—when we recall this central fact of our faith and Church’s life,  that Jesus calls us to die and rise with him to new life all the time.

This week we thank everyone for everything they have done to make our parish expression of faith in the Paschal Mystery of Jesus such a beautiful and profound  experience in time. The sheer number of hours that are spent in planning, publications, music rehearsing, decorating, loading and unloading, and then the hundreds
of people on hand to do what is needed for the liturgies themselves, our ushers/greeters, ministers  of Word and Eucharist, vocalists, choirs and instrumentalists, altar servers and deacons and priests. The week after is often compared to what a mother sometimes goes through after having a baby—now what? So much goes into the big
event, you almost have to reinvent what comes next because there was so much going on we weren’t thinking about Easter Monday!

Someone said I should have kept track of the number of hours people spent, that nobody would believe it. Well, that is true, if it were even possible, but someone would have to spend a lot of hours just counting a lot of hours.

So, to all of you, thanks. I hope your participation filled your hearts with Easter joy and that your tired is a good tired. I know mine is. And hat you are getting good and regular sleep. God has got to be pleased with the hard work, the sharp use of gifts, the big work of praise and thanks. We all acknowledge that these things just don’t happen, and it is thanks to all of you that it did this year. I think our liturgies were more beautiful this year than they have ever been.

In a particular way we owe a debt of thanks to people who really did spend countless hours: Rick Caporali, David Mathers, Chris Lanzarone, our Sisters and pretty much all musicians: Thank you for generously using your gifts.

God bless all of you, happy Easter!

Fr. Don